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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Currently
The Nines (Special Edition)
By Hope Davis, Ryan Reynolds, David Denman, Octavia L. Spencer, Melissa McCarthy
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Playing family

Mom:  This week, we're going to have a playdate with J & A at the Wu's home! 

E/J (together):  GREAT!

J:  I like playing at J's house.  We can play on her bed. 

Mom:  You probably shouldn't play on her bed.  Why do you do that?

J:  We play 'family' on her bed.

Mom:  Oh yeah?

J:  Yesh.  I'm the father, and she's the mother. 

Dad:  Where are the children?

J:  They're not here yet. 

Mom/Dad: 

Dad:  So, what do you do all day?  Do you go to work?  Does J (mom) cook and clean?

J:  We don't do anyshing.  We just play family.


Thursday, December 10, 2009

Currently
Up (Single Disc Widescreen)
By Edward Asner, Jordan Nagai, John Ratzenberger, Christopher Plummer, Bob Peterson
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Give shanks/Publics

Mom:  What's your favorite holiday, kids?

C:  Christmas, definitely.  I just need to figure out my wishlist.

E:  Halloween, love the candy!

J:  Mine is Shanksgiving, definiitely Shanksgiving.  I like to give shanks.  Then, I like Halloween, then I like Chrishmash. 

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We probably need to stop bathing the kids together.  They're getting a bit too old and a bit too aware...

Mom:  Hey, stop playing with your privates.  Stop playing with your brother's privates. 

E:  Why? 

Mom:  Because they're privates.  They're not to be played with.

J:  But I can play with mine.  They're publics.  See? 


Thursday, December 03, 2009

Currently
Taylor Swift - Holiday Collection / Sounds of the Season CD
By Taylor Swift
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Don't let the sun set...

Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor (or daughter, added by me), for we are all members of one body.  "In your anger do not sin:  Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.  --Paul to the Ephesus church, 4:25-27

This past Thanksgiving was truly memorable.  Not just for the gatherings with family and friends, not just for the ultimate frisbee games, not just for the great feasts, not just for the recounting of the many blessings and abundance that we have so thoroughly enjoyed this past year, but for the high times and low times that such a holiday season would and could inevitably bring. 

It rained all day on Saturday.  That is a thunderous occurrence in San Diego, with an average of 146 sunny days and 117 partly cloudy days per year.  We went out to lunch to a rather new noodle place--it was good, but too oily, and I don't think I'll go back any time soon.  Mei mei got a Mango Boba for dessert.  I asked for a sip. 

E:  Nooooo. 

Dad:  Pretty please give me a sip of your Boba?  (She gives me the cup reluctantly)  I take a small, guarded sip.  

E:  (Screams emphatically to the point of a crying sob)  NOOOOOOO!!!  (I give the Boba cup back to her)

I was quite taken aback by this reaction.  Does she love Boba THIS much?  Does she hate her Dad in comparison that much?  Obviously she loves her boba.  But in my humble opinion her perspective was a bit off--I had just bought her the Boba and her cup was quite large, more than enough to share with anyone who asks, much less her father, the source of the boba itself. 

Dad:  Give me the boba.  (No response)  Give me the boba!  (No response)  (I basically scream)  GIVE ME THE BOBA NOOOOOOW!!!  (She gives me the cup very grudgingly)

I slam the cup down in the cup holder.  This is all happening while we're driving home, by the way.  I could feel the anger welling up inside of me, it was not a healthy feeling.  I happen to be watching the Star Wars series, and I could hear Yoda's voice echoing in me, 'Anger is the path that leads to the dark side.  Down that path do not go.'  I was seething.  Perhaps my anger was misplaced.  Perhaps my perspective was off.  Perhaps I needed to learn from my own heavenly Father about my own selfishness and difficulty in sharing with others in need.  A good lesson to learn the second day after Thanksgiving.  I was determined to go straight home and have E flush her boba down the toilet, I was so mad at her. 

After what seemed like an eternity, we arrived home.  The car had been eerily silent.  I placed the boba cup next to the toilet and waited for E.  She was feeling pretty bad by this time.  She could only hug Mom.  Dad was too scary. 

Mom:  You need to apologize to Dad, E. 

E:  Nooooooo....

Dad:  Flush the boba down the toilet, E. 

E:  (With insincerity and lack of eye contact)  Sorry! 

Dad:  Say it better.

E:  Sooorrrrrrryyy!!!

Dad:  The reason why I am talking to you, E, is because I love you.  I need you to learn sometimes how other people feel--my feelings were hurt when you screamed "NOOOO" at me when I took a sip of the boba drink.  I need you to learn how to share even when it hurts and even when you don't want to. 

E:  Oooookay...

Dad:  Thank you.  This is a hard lesson to learn, but we all need to learn it. 

About twenty minutes later, my anger subsided.  E was drawing invitations for her birthday party and I decided to give her the rest of the boba instead of flushing it down the toilet.  Sometimes grace and mercy is a harder lesson to learn than simply sharing out of our abundance.  Perhaps E and I butt heads more because we are such similar temperaments and personalities.  All was well again in our household.   


Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Currently
Star Wars - Episode VI, Return of the Jedi [VHS]
By Kenny Baker, Michael Carter, Kenneth Colley, Dermot Crowley, Anthony Daniels
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Kids are growing...

Mom and I were talking around the dinner table last night about how interesting our different children are. 

Mom:  We can really trust C.  He's really trustworthy. 

Dad:  I agree.  We can really rely on him!

C:  Hmm.  Are you sure?  You shouldn't judge a book by it's cover...

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Christmas is coming.  My brother asked me what the kids wanted.

Dad:  J, what do you want for Christmas?

J:  (shrugs his shoulders and smiles--his shoulders are TINY)  I don't know.  I think I already got enough presents at my birthday party!

(I'm going to cherish that moment forever...)

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Monday, September 21, 2009

Currently
Viva La Vida
By Coldplay
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Car Theology

We were driving home from swimming, when I ran a yellow light. 

C:  Dad!  That light was yellow! 

Dad:  Yes, but I entered the intersection when it was yellow, not red. 

C:  But yellow means 'slow DOWN'. 

Dad:  Ah yes, I sit corrected. 

C:  This reminds me of how God answers prayer. 

Dad:  Oh yeah?

C:  Yes.  Green means that God means 'Yes, it's a go, go for it, yes to that prayer.'  Red means that God says 'No, no way jose, not this time, buddy'.  Yellow means 'wait, maybe, slow down'. 

Dad:  Ah, that's cool!  I like it! 

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I always start and end the day with kisses and hugs to my kiddoes.  It's my favorite part of the day, although alot of the time, it's not theirs.  I came home one day to kiss Dido (J), and he starts using the Force on me. 

Dido:  Force!  (Holds out his hand with his palm outstretched)  Choke!  (Starts putting two fingers together)

Dad:  Awww, Dido, just one kiss?

Dido:  Nope!  No! 

Dad:  Are you sure?  Puhleeeeease!?

Dido:  Ok.  Fine.

Dad:  YES!  One slurpy cheeky kiss comin' right up! 

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Dad:  Hey guys, wanna come to a football game with me? 

C, E, J:  NO!

Dad:  Awww, but they're fun!  It's only 2 hours car ride there and 3 hours to watch!

C, E, J:  Uhhhh...........

Dad:  And plenty of cotton candy, popcorn, and goodies! 

C:  Good, addictive stuff!  I still don't want to go.

E, J:  We'll go!!!! 

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(I was just reminded of another incident this morning.  C is growing in wisdom by leaps and bounds...)

Dido was showing me a Thomas train catalog.

Dido:  Hi Dad, I want this train and this car, and this train, and these tracks, so we can build this setup.

Dad:  Uh, wow, ok. 

C:  (overhearing conversation)  Well, Dido, you really think that is going to satisfy you?  How much is enough?  Look at all the toys we already have.  We have more than enough, so just be satisfied. 

Dido:  Uh, no. 

C:  Trust me, Dido, we have enough.

Dad: 



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